L O V E Session...SpeakersCorner*

What Counts as *c h e a t i n g?
the lines are often blurry when it comes to...dating and DECEIT; we all need to gain some clarity about cheating....ok im NOT gonna lie alot of people have a hard time determining when they have crossed the line or they just can't admit it, every individual has their own perception on what cheating is...so should we come to a mutual understanding before we begin dating?? hmmm...or better yet lets start from the JUMP; the two people involved may not agree on the relationship they actually have in the first place...thats when it gets complicated and thats when things go sour. Relationships morph without warning from one thing into another, assuming a variety of forms such as “just friends,” hanging out, casual dating, broken-up, back together, with each other exclusively, engaged, and so on. Each form has its own rules and expectations. SO FOCUS ON WHAT YOU HAVE, WORK WITH WHAT YOU GOT, and remain faithful within reason.

senario o n e : girl tells other girls "i love my boyfriend, we've been together for five years he buys me everything, but when i go out i act like im single". confused girl replies how do you act single? and why do you do it if he gives you everything? girl answers "omg! i would never actually cheat on him i just wanna have fun at the party i always do it..."

OK PEOPLE....now i'd say they would fall in to the category of "with each other exclusively" only because there is a timeline of 5years. The girl acts single at the club, boy gives her everything, oh wait she loves him! i'd say she crossed the line i would consider it deceitful. but its clear, to her cheating means one thing SEX!...so she can do everything else....and its fine, but is it? what would boy have to say about this?

senario t w o : “I’ve been dating a great guy for five months, but I still text back and forth with my ex-boyfriend. That’s okay, right?”

hmm...dating? number one RULE never text ur EX (it rhymes for a reason)lol its like the motto when ur dating someone new...anyone else but not the EX! If your doing that, there is still part of you that isnt entirely satisfied with what u have now. THERE IS NOTHING CUTE ABOUT BAGGAGE...make sure your ready to move on.

senario t h r e e: "I love my girl who ive been with for 6 years, but there is this next girl my baby girl..who is my dream girl that trophy girl; i dont kno her all that well to be honest, but i cant let her go and at the same time i could never break it off with wifey so imma keep them both" i can work it out, im a good guy!

OK HOLD ON there PLAYAAA lmao where in Gods creation did it ever state that it was fine on having two women without them knowing about each other? okok SO I DONT EVEN NEED to on because we all clearly know its cheating> i'd have to admit its heartbreaking for wifey and still at the same time upsetting for trophy girl BUT HEY dudes will be dudes....u cant stop them or try and convince them to do better you just gotta get better at the game ladies!

muah hold tight more coming soon....& as our L O V E sessions dies...