The Power of a Man!

A man has the power to love a woman in a way that she has never been loved,
and yet hurt her with the same intensity.
A man has the power to treat a woman like a queen then turn around and make her wish she was never born.
A man has the power to make a woman cry with happiness and joy, then turnaround and make her cry with hurt and anger.
A man has the power to let a woman feel free and wanted, but also Feel disgusted and unworthy. A man has the power to look a woman in her face and tell her he loves her, but turn around and sleep with her best friend.
A man has the power to make you fall in love with him within days, and hate him within minutes. During sex a man has the power to make a woman feel like she's in heaven, and afterwards makes her feel like a whore.
A man has the power to change a woman from having goals, to living out his goals instead of her own.
Why is it that men have such power? They have so much power, because we give it to them.
The power of a man wouldn't mean anything without a woman.
Behind every beautiful woman there is a stupid man..that fucked up and left her and NEEDS her back.
So ladies when times are hard between you and your man and you realize that he treats you bad, remember that he can only do what you allow.

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CONGRATS KEYSHIA!

Keyshia Cole is now ENGAGED!

her man Boobie popped the BIG question on New Years!

CONGRATS TO BOTH OF YOU!

they are definitely another HOT couple!

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deep.....REAL DEEP!

The brightness of forgiveness is beyond description. The brightness of honesty is indescribable. When it comes that time for me to walk hand in hand with that special someone, I need that grip to be tight that bond to be unbreakable that connection to be inseparable, for one cannot walk down that road alone forever.... I want to be loved, and I want to love. I feel like I can do anything, but then I doubt myself; my insecurities get the best of me. I hold on too tight to what is not important. I forget what I am put here for, my dreams tend to leak in to my reality, I need to have goals not wishes I need to give and not receive...should i like the life im living....or should i live the life i like! I have a journey I must pick a road to walk....I have started it alone, but I do not want to end it that way. I must not follow anyone but create my own trail; therefore, I will leave footprints of my past, which will foreshadow to my future. I must not dwell on the past but focus on what is waiting for me. I have made mistakes and so have you...but who are we to judge. i will be there if u need me. I’m a person who likes to keep her reality a fantasy where everybody is happy….so what’s better a lie that draws a smile or the truth that draws a tear? Dont abuse me, treat me how you'd want some man to treat your daughter....ive always wondered if i was asking for too much. I used to sit here and wonder where I was, why I felt isolated from the rest of the world, I felt trapped within my self. I needed to be free I wanted to feel what the others felt..or what I saw them feel. But have concluded, that no matter the situation YOU are your only ONE...you live how you like, ....lifes not short its the LONGEST thing you'll ever do. Make it worth living...because your WORTH it. i have grown.... Most of my insecurities have diminished, I have loved and felt love I discovered the undiscovered, I know i am better, but all that has happened only contributed to where i am today. I believe in myself, and I know I have the ability and with desire and determination, I will succeed. Do not give up and make stupid decisions at the last minute, because that last minute could be that last minute that will cost you your life. i must continue this cycle and fill in the blank spaces, and enjoy the end result. Therefore, I will now get on my way, and continue down my road, which I created i will carry on....

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My Former Black Warrior

I once knew a young black man who stole my heart. And then he gave it back to me when I begged for him to keep it. I said, “Thieves don’t give back the goods.” But he said, “This thief can take all the goods in the world with his black skin and his kingly ways.” And I said, “But these goods of mine are more precious than the furthest North and the furthest South, and if you run from me east to West, you will only run in circles of misery.” And he said, “Yes, but this king can jump, to the moon, and to Jupiter and as far as Pluto, searching for more conquest.” So what could I do, but to say that I would follow him to the edge of the universe? And then he took me by my hand and ran me through the darkest pits of hell! And I yelled, “Oh my black king! I will still follow you, no matter how much you torture me!” Well then,” he said,” you are a fool of limited wisdom and no self-respect.” And I then corrected him saying, “No, I am love eternal, giving you life, so who are you to take mine away, just because I love you so?” And he said, “You should have known then, that I would deceive you because I am a warrior, who is not to be seduced.” And I said< “Yes, but even black warriors need a place to rest and to feel secure in the warmth that only I can give you.” “I need no rest, he said and with my tears, I can bring you back again.” And then he fell to his knees and cried, then he said I have been the arrogant fool, while you have been the wise one all along.” And I said back to him, “Stand up, my king, For you shall discard me again with your blind arrogance. And I shall chase you again to the edge of our universe, bringing you to your knees reminding you that through me you became alive, with my eternal love. You will forever need your Queen...And then he nestled up beside me and I loved him like my husband.....

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TO ALL THOSE GIRLS WHO REAALYY NEED TO WAKE UP!

The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed. The ones who made it through that bitter break up,dried your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened. Those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going. The ones who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend, one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves and misses you. We deserve something, and this is our tribute. Here's to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change. We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents, and even snuck around to see him for while. We went through the great stage with no fights all over again. We started this out thinking it would be just friends, and ended up falling in love with him again. We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time. And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming. This is for us. Here's to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days. Here's for the tears cried and dried all over again. We wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldn't possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early. We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us. We learned to SETTLE for someone who didn't treat us the way we should be treated. Here's for the ones who did their hair and make up and put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldn't see us today. The ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else. We just couldn't believe that he could do this to us again. This is for those great girls, who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn't bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if". This is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with. Here's to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt. The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again. This is for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so." The ones that could just TELL that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts, and their dreams again. We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us. We just wanted the one that we loved like that. Here's for the ones that FINALLY realized that he never gave a crap about them. Here's for the time that he broke your heart again. This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment. Here's for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better. This is for those confusing days, when you miss him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist. Stay strong, and remember that relationships are like broken glass, sometimes it's better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt. Remember the times you cried, and how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that. When "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station. When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries calling, turn your phone off. When he tries coming to your house, don't answer the door. Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the crap he was. Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn't him, and realized that once again, he hadn't called when he said he was going to. One day, you'll find a guy who's worth all the tears, but he won't make you cry. You may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will. It's gonna hurt like crap, and it's going to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal. This is for those girls, who fell back in love with a guy, only to get hurt all over again ..

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